We Used To Be Friends

I have been having people who used to be friends. Like more the 20 years ago pop back into my life(thanks Facebook). I could have just not accepted the friend request. I love stories, so I really wanted to hear they were doing good.

Kind of like:
We used to be friends

Well things normally start back OK. I am not in my 20s anymore. I dont care what people brag about. I am happy if things are going well for them. The issue is when they start asking for loans, or help. They are not part of my utangard. I dont know them. I have been through enough shit. They didnt find me when things were going great for them. They need my help now.

Heathens:

 

I had one come back into my like. I asked the ruins if I should unfriend them. They said it would be bad or not worth the effort if I did. Thankfully this person unfriended me themselves. I think the runes were right. It was better to let them do it. I had turned off all their access to me in Facebook. It just still said we were friends.

The person did come by before the unfriending. Asking for more help. I told this person we were not friends, and I didnt trust them. They had told me all kinds of things that didnt match up.

Billie:

I ended up thinking about friends. I care a lot about my friends. Even friends I havent seen for to long, that have done a lot for me. I would help them, even though we haven’t hung out in years. It is harder to keep up with people as you get older. Make me sad.

Not really sure what this post is about. Maybe this is just me attempting to clean up life a little more.

Hávamál 119: Weeds and high grass will grow on a path that nobody travels.

Maybe some paths need weeds. I need to make sure I see my friends more.

I am was questioning if I broke with any virtues. I dont think so. Let me know what you think.

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